MNA Life Style Desk: Possessive Husbands can create havoc in relationships because they cannot deal with the fact that their wife is interacting with other men in society. This happens due to jealousy and their extra possessive attitude.
Here are some tips for you to deal with possessiveness of your husband
Handling your over possessive husband is only possible when he is not physically threatening or physically abusive. Make sure that you are safe when you come in his trigger of possessiveness. Not down the instances when he is in the possessive mode and try to analyze his behavior.
Your secret diary will tell you the situations when he does not have any control on his words. It will help you judge his reasons of possessiveness. Always talk to a trusted female friend who is close to you about the happenings as she will always be there if something goes wrong.
Controlling and possessive husbands can constantly message or call you when you are at work or out. He may check your phone or mails regularly. He makes rules for you and wants you to meet only girls. Then this is the best time you need to talk to him.
Talking with him when he is not in the fighting mode and asking him to explain what are the things that bother him or why he needs to be possessive can help you get out of the situation. Do not push the conversation to a limit that he will start arguing.
Understand that all these things can be done if you are safe in his company. Once he starts physically, emotionally and mentally abusing you, it’s time to leave. Take help from a friend, family or police.