MNA Life Style Desk: While dream vacations and life milestones are important, it’s the simple ways you do that make your wife happier. Express love and show respect to your bride every day, and remind her why you were the best choice she’s ever made.
There are uncountable times in marriage when a husband and wife get their wires crossed. No wonder men are confused about how to make your wife happy. Efforts to make your wife happy may seem to backfire more often than not.
Though the mystery between men and women is sure to continue, here are some useful tips to make your wife happy.
At the end of a long day office battles and keeping the kids from climbing walls, you could both use a loving hug. Make an idea of presentation you missed her and are glad to be reunited. A big kiss doesn’t hurt, either.
Give a helping hand
With an honest willingness to give a helping hand, ask how you can lift her load. This movement applies to more than yard work, but being in tune with her needs passionately and spiritually, as well.
You don’t have to be Shakespeare; the thought matters most here. Focus on specific things you love about her; the wrinkle in her nose when she laughs or how she finds joy in the little things. You can hide it in her makeup bag, under her pillow, or somewhere else she’ll discover it. She’ll be happily surprised and gem your words for years to come.
Make talk time
Don’t let yourself to become so busy that you can’t spend 15 minutes a day talking with your wife. By the way, the last 15 minutes of your day when you’re utterly exhausted don’t count. If possible, use mealtime as a place for chat. If dinner doesn’t work, maybe it’s a five minute phone call at lunch and 10 minutes sitting on the sofa in the evening.
Take a coffee date
Let her know you want to hear all the details of her day over a nice, hot cup of coffee. If you have younger children, arrange for someone to watch the kids for an hour or two. On the date, hold her hand and open the door for her.
Help at home
If you want to make your wife mad, say something like “Oh, I see you’re doing your annual vacuuming” (I know this from personal experience). But if you pick up around the house, help in the kitchen, and yes even vacuum without being asked, your wife will be incredibly thankful.
Give a surprising gift
Most women love gifts and it doesn’t really matter whether they come in small or big parcels. Surprise her with a just-because bunch of flowers or box of chocolates. May be she’s accumulating a wish list online of things she wants.