Bringing the spark back into relationship

MNA Lifestyle Desk: Bringing the spark back into the relationship can be a lot of fun, and it can make both of you feel like little kids again, but it does take some time and patience. The best part about a happy relationship is that the effort you take always pays you back a hundred fold.

So stop worrying about what you’re going to get back in return, and just open your heart out to your lover. When you lose the spark in a relationship, it’s not always because both of you don’t have time for each other. Almost always, it’s because both of you just aren’t having enough fun together.

All relationships start with a bang. And all lovers know just what it takes to please their lover and keep love alive. But somewhere along the way, most lovers overlook the little things that brought them together.

Make time for each other

Every big change starts in small ways, and this is one such start. The first thing you need to do is learn to make time for each other. Schedule a few hours every week, maybe a Sunday evening, to do something that both of you enjoy, like watching a movie or working on a pet project together. That can bring spark to your relationship with your partner.

Pillow talk to bring spark

Don’t bring your worries into bed. Don’t bring your gadgets or reading material into bed. This is the biggest mistake lovers do. When you enter step three, make a habit of getting into bed with no distractions and just lie down together, even if it seems awkward or boring in bed because there are tons of things you could rather do.

Surprise each other

The romantic gestures may have been forgotten, but it has to be brought back into your relationship. And if you care enough to bring the spark back into your relationship, you need to start somewhere. Make the effort to woo each other and surprise each other, at least in little ways. You can start small, and your partner will start reciprocating your effort too.

Make vacation or short getaway

The first few steps would bring both of you closer together and bond better. And now, it’s time to make a bigger change. Take off on a vacation or a weekend getaway. Remember, there’s always the awkward feeling at the back of your mind because you’re doing all this not because you feel like it, but because you want to reignite the romance.

So don’t put too much pressure on trying to focus on romance. Plan a fun vacation to a beach where the two of you can party all night long, meet new and exciting people together and have a fun time.